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Originally Posted by ladytiger
I gave my bf Army guy's number and I knew he was gonna get it out of me asap. My bf sent him a text telling him to stay away from me. Army guy not really an ex we didn't exactly date like how we wanted to. Army guy was 2nd guessing himself before my bf got ahold of him. Bf and I spoke telling me he hasn't changed don't care if he is in the Army.
I told bf what he told me about being a gentlemen and a friend bf said you don't sleep with another guy's woman don't care if the relationship is good or falling apart. I think it's pretty bad the damage bf said to him why are you trying to take advantage of the distress? Army guy being pushy I need an answer I was starting to see old patterns from him like long ago and this is why I am questioning myself about him. I feel after this I am gonna lose him again but I don't want to date a Sheldon Cooper from Big Bang either. I did tell my bf that I was falling for him and bf said he wanted his cake and ice cream. If he was such a man, you trying to kiss him, he should have put his hands up saying back off our friendship is too good to get ruined. What about my parents?
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I brought up resolving early childhood stuff, about parents because of what I'd quoted of yours, below. I've found it's common to unknowingly repeat witnessed patterns from childhood. It's one thing to intellectually know your own history, yet another to pick up on how subconsciously patterns become repeated,even when dynamics don't seem obvious.
Your story is that you don't want to lose army guy, although he is showing that he's repeating old patterns, yet, your story talks of not being fulfilled with who you are currently with.
It's a tough position, to be in.
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Originally Posted by ladytiger
I mean, I've never been a military guy's girlfriend in my life. All of my life, I have watched my idiot mom be in a miserable marriage with my dead beat dad saw the **** she put up with telling her own daughters this is how you stay in a marriage never lose your identity! Anyway, Army guy did say it's up to me as to what I want to do....
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