He came home to talk, yesterday...

You were right, he was overwhelmed by all the texts and questions. And taking in the negative texts, ignoring the positive ones, until he was able to calm down.

I am very relieved to know he is not giving up and not cancelling our lease. We are going to talk again but he wouldn't commit to a time or day. I looked at him puzzled and he told me that he was busy today with repairs with help from his nephew. He was maybe a little puzzled thinking I was trying to LIMIT him to a time and day...he said he should be able to come and go as he pleases, it's his home.

There wasn't another woman involved in that way. His ex wife has been doing things to interrupt our days and I didn't take it well, after a while.

I always knew what happened. I was not upset with him, I was annoyed with his Ex for telling him sudden plans for him to stay with the children overnight, when I expected him home. It was the third time, it happened this month, since we moved into our new place. I ended up fighting with him, when it wasn't about us. I always agree that he has to stay over night for his children..I just do not like the way it is done.

I really want to learn off this and not feel like I am being neglected and starting a fight. It's like I am playing right into her hands...she wants to cause fiction between us and I let it happen.