How do we move on from an affair. We have been together for 12 years, and it seems crazy to just walk away. He is trying so hard to make up for what he has done, but I can not move past it. We went to a counseling session today, but the counseler literally said random words, and told us his story. I am like i dont care ask us stuff give us advice help us!!!! I just hate having all these thoughts, and not wanting to even look at him or touch him. There are days I feel everything is normal others I am just like ugh!!!!