All this is great advice. I wish I had it going through college. I wasn't even diagnosed yet!
Like you've done, take the new advice and suggestions and your concerns and thoughts and do a pros and cons list.
If you can put college on hold and find outlets to keep you out of your home like what wildflowerchild25 said and stick with it, awesome!
If you really don't want to quit for now check in to what Heechee55 suggested.

It took me 3 in a half (one semester part time is the half, lol) colleges and some time off, taking me almost 7 years and no diagnosis or meds. To finish my B.S. I did it!