PLUS:

- ecigs for her (as a bystander, I simply love the aroma that coffee-flavored ecigs emit... heaven)

- you write one story per week about your happy days together, in distant past; present your stories to her - it would be a welcome change from what she dubbed your "badgering"

- you remove guilt+remorse from your usage of chat rooms and porn. You are free to feel sadness, emptiness, or what not, but you are not to feel guilty. Deal?