My main T has mentioned that a lot of psychological problems first start as a temperament mismatch between mother and child. He has met with my family and my mom early on , in my late teens so he believes this is the case with me, which can lead one to thinking they are adopted.

My T has even gone as far to say that I was an unwanted pregnancy, and my mom was still ambivalent about me but eventually grew to love me. By then, damage was done.