I am so sorry that took place. I can relate completely. To this day I have trouble trusting females (sorry girls). My wife waited till I went to work, sent constables in to serve me papers. No clue or idea. When left for work she hugged, kissed, and was very sexual. Five hours later, being accused of lots of crap I would never do in my life. That caused great stress and even PTSD. Sounds dumb, but I was hit broad side and everything I thought I knew and had was gone in seconds. Homeless, moneyless, all gone. Long stupors short, five court cases, won all, got nothing from it though. Have not seen my children for long time due to her desire to stress her desire. She is an addict and alcoholic and was angry when her secrete relationship was exposed. All manipulated and planned. I will pray for ya and hope it turns out better then my case.