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Originally Posted by A Red Panda
I'm not quite sure what you're saying due to the language you've used, so I may mistake the meaning.
You cannot be creepy or a stalker and be successful in dating someone. If the other person finds you creepy or considers you to be a stalker, then it means that they do not enjoy contact with you and wish that you would stop. Being considered to be creepy or a stalker is not respectful.
If someone appreciates the attention you give her, then she will not consider you creepy. She'll welcome the conversation.
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You understood me correctly.
I am somewhat ok with what you mentioned, except for the last paragraph which contradicts with the rest of your statement.
Let us agree that, basically talking to a girl you don't know is obtrusive and creepy. So how can't she consider me as a creepy person while I don't know her? How does she appreciate my attention while I don't know her and stalking her?