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Originally Posted by seawhale
No one can deny that trying to date a girl on Facebook or any other social network or even in real life with the attitude of being an obtrusive person who inserts his nose in other girl's personal life - will most probably ends that she will ignore you disregarding your look and what you are going to say.
Indeed, being creepy or stalker will makes her avoids you or ignore you, just feelings of disrespect will be formed towards you.
BUT I am quit sure that you can take this approach with minimum losses, and you can succeed in dating her, just to write to her in a respectful way mixed with funny words and sense of humor can do it.
Anyone agrees?
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The possible and considerable losses would be to your time, energy, and spirit. The more one-sided conversation you're conducting, the harder it's going to be on you, and potentially quite unhealthy.
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— Antonio R. Damasio, “The Feeling of What Happens: Body and Emotion in the Making of Consciousness” (p.28)
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