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Also, it is easier for me to work for said boss. I usually do everything I can to take care of them professionally and personally if they want to talk about anything too. This boss who could be male or female is usually older than me and not younger.

I guess I'm always looking for love, acceptance and someone to take care of me and me of them.

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I had similar problems when I was working, almeda, but I think some of it has to do with transference rather than boundaries; "thinking"/feeling they were parent figures?

I think of boundaries like literal ones; as if we're all a different "state"/county or some other jurisdiction and we both have to work together but also have to keep others from messing with our business -- i.e., there has to be interstate commerce and "council of governments" sorts of organizations but each has it's own police force and laws, etc. :-) Even if a law is the "same" in one county as another, doesn't mean the "other" county cop can drive across the border and apprehend the suspect.