I'm sorry you are feeling so upset about your relationship with your daughter, Pianogirl. I get on very well with my younger son, but my older son and I seem always to rub each other up the wrong way. It's really painful when the relationship we have with our children is damaged.
Your counsellor will want to know about the really, really hard things - I know how difficult it is to trust enough to do this though. I hope you can find the courage to talk about all this on Monday.

Bluegrey