There is a wonderful book by Parker J. Palmer titled: A Hidden Wholeness- The Journey Toward an Undivided Life. In this book Palmer asserts no one can ever really understand another person's innermost feelings. They are too complex. All we can do, all we should do, is to stand at the edge of a person's sacred circle & provide quiet support for the person's self-healing. And so, with that thought in mind, please know I am standing at the perimeter of your sacred circle.