Mowtown, if you plan on asking for financial help, perhaps you could do so leaving out the bike and the car which would be something your family could complain about. Just a suggestion, I don't know what you have financed and what kind of medical expenses you have accumulated. You could "try" explaining that you have been struggling with post traumatic stress and having other health issues and you have been working very hard in therapy and with yourself physically to get in better shape to overcome this challenge.

You know your family best Mowtown, I just thought that I would suggest a way you "could" approach the financial challenge.

((Hugs))
OE