My ex-therapist told me to be my own hero. Offthegrid, yea, he did say that to me on FB! It's funny, me and other women said the same thing that he isn't entitled to any woman's affections/feelings in the past and he got mad at that. We were being honest and one woman who knows him always tell him that's why your relationships never last. I thought for sure he would change but guess not - wait until he starts blaming me for either staying with my bf or not. I told him whether I stay with him or not has nothing to do with you at all, women have to process these things deeper than men do and he's like I don't have the time in the world to wait when I am gonna be stationed else where which I get that part.

He's like Sheldon Cooper always gotta be so damn analytical and make things into a job interview. I sent him all of these love texts before he left and not once did he say anything to me about it as I was trying to give him space! In the past, yea, we stopped talking for 3 yrs 04-07. I told Army guy that whatever I do with either my bf or someone else is not your biz, I appreciate the concern, but don't move in thinking you are gonna replace that person.

He told me that there was this female friend of his who has 2 kids by either her current bf or a previous relationship and her bf has a kid by his ex. He refused to do anything with her and the kids just left to do whatever. He told me he spent time with the woman and her kids that they were very happy as her jerk bf didn't wanna spend time with them. I said that's fine but remember you are the friend not her bf, she is still attached to the guy. He said it's not good that she is still with him only financially speaking which I do agree but it's not his place nor his relationship with her.

Army guy wants a family I told him you and me differ from there. Maybe there was a good reason why my period came on that week he wanted to have sex with me. He talks about how other men treat women like **** but tells other people what to do in their relationships big difference between a listening ear and borderline moving in to replace that person. Now, I see why someone on here told me the grass may not always be green. My coworker met my bf she felt (she is 70) that my bf is just so stagnant and would rather not do anything which isn't the first time people have said that to me.