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Old Oct 11, 2014, 11:05 PM
hamster-bamster hamster-bamster is offline
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Originally Posted by lilith delilah View Post
You know I really do put out alot of hints such as checking girls an guys out in front of her I compliment girls alot in front of her call them beautiful and smile alot an have convos in front of her but she doesn't seem to get it .... I've asked her how would she feel if I were an she said she wouldn't be happy or anything that it's weird. She said she would just assume I'm confused because I'm not open and antisocial so I just don't see a difference in my likes..... so I think she may know an just thinks that. But when im not around her I am not quite I'm VERY open about myself. An I feel like lieing is toxic in any type of relationships.
Antisocial people are charming and outgoing manipulators. Your mom probably means "asocial" - it is a common point of confusion. Still, antisocial and asocial have nothing to do with seeing a difference in your likes. So she seems to be confused, and you seem to be quite clear and OK.