He is the tournament official at a local gaming store for a card game they play. This kid was always up there and D felt sorry for him and took him under his wing. Hubby is HUGE on us having shared interests so at least every other week I get roped into playing which is how I met him.

The pros of telling hubby is it's honest, IF the kid is dangerous it gives him a heads up and I can't think of another pro.

The cons are D is EXTREMELY unpredictable. He could do anything from want to fight him, to try to find him a girlfriend, to hurt himself(he sees hurting himself as a way to teach other people a lesson and make them feel bad). D only has 4 friends that he hangs out with so I am potentially cutting his friend pool by a quarter. He's very jealous so that means he's going to scrutinize EVERY email, chat, text and phone call that I've sent or received in the last forever.