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Originally Posted by kaliope
i think you should tell hubby. he has the right to know. your relationship comes first and honesty should be part of any relationship. i know you want to help your friend, but you are right to think something is seriously wrong. he is inappropriate and you don't want to find out if he is unpredictable. if you feel the need to continue, make it contingent on him getting help.
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I do want to help him but what he said truly freaked me out. WHO thinks that way??? And to specifically ask about D's health and when do I expect him to die?? I myself am not right in the head. My childhood damaged me on fundamental levels but even I think that's twisted, for lack of a better word.
I believe in complete honesty in a relationship but D is so unpredictable. We're talking about a man that jumped out of a moving car over me telling him he was misinformed about diet soda and reduced fat food. I'm doing 45 MPH and he opens the door and rolls out. He had a suicide attempt over $10.
I'm probably going to tell him just because I hate lies and I see an omission of facts as the same thing as a lie. I'm just very worried as to how he will react.