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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
I'm not quite sure I understand at all 
You want a kink free relationship with your GF, because all or most of your past kink experiences were bad.
That part I understand.
But what exactly stops you from keeping things vanilla between you and the GF in the bedroom?
Do you have a compulsion to act out the things you've grown to hate with her and are seeking ways to prevent that from happening?
Or do you struggle to find pleasure in sexual acts that don't hold bad memories?
Sorry if I seem dense,its quite late, also I'm tired and quite ill atm. |
Don't be sorry, I pretty sure now that I haven't exactly made my problem very clear. To put it bluntly I want to have a "traditional" relationship with my girlfriend. The issue is that trying a traditional relationship is something i havent taken seriously until now and when it wasn't enough I have acted out and reached for satisfaction in other ways such as messaging other or sending pictures to others. There was a situation where my girlfriend and I were on a break and I was so sad and lonely. I had related the feelings to my past and I even crossdressed like i did in the past but I felt horrible doing it.