I actually told D everything today. Kid called the house 3 times and I told D not to answer so the third time he was like unless you give me a reason I'm answering. He actually took it much better than I ever expected. He chuckled and said "You need to quit being so irresistible and sexy." BUT he said he expected this sooner or later. I was floored and he said the kid is weird, socially awkward, uncouth and just a mess. Then told me you are really good at putting people at ease and making them feel accepted. You make someone who's never felt accepted feel accepted and they are probably going to interrupt that as love. I told him that I was no longer comfortable being around him and he said he understood and thought that was best. Then said he was going to have a serious talk with him. And that's where we left it.

The funny thing is that as I was typing this I got an alert that my email was signed on at another location. Guess hubby didn't take it as completely ok as he let on. Bet my emails and chats are being scrutinized as I type. Oh well I have nothing to hide I just wish he'd be upfront and ask.