Be yourself. I can honestly say that being unique has attracted WAY more guys than being a carbon copy of someone else. Having things in common is usually a good idea, but I think that differences are important too. I dated a guy who wanted to be involved in everything I was and wanted to get involved in my hobbies and interests, and it was suffocating! I have my own interests and I'm not looking for a tag along buddy whom I have to teach and will slow me down. It was annoying that he couldn't be his own person.

Be yourself. Develop your own hobbies and interests. It is attractive....being a copy just makes you look sad and pathetic. Do you have self esteem issues?