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Originally Posted by sophiesmom
I get the impression that you wish you were satisfied with a vanilla relationship...but you're not.
No, it's not easy at all to flip a switch. If you're lucky enough to enter into a relationship in which your partner is happy with vanilla as well as kinky sex, then it's whatever you both desire at the moment.
But lots of people, having enjoyed their own kind of kink, have a LOT of trouble being in an entirely vanilla relationship....
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No it hasn't been easy but I'm going to "flip the switch" because I love my girlfriend and she deserves better from me. She has bent over backwards to work things out. I need to identify my triggers then I believe I can take a step forward. I know you said some people are lucky enough to have a partner who enjoys both kinky and vanilla but I'm just lucky to have my girlfriend and I want to make a change within me so that we can be happy together and I never hurt her