Stop dog I like your attitude, maybe I need to take the T off the pedestal that I have placed her on, I don't think she has placed herself there intentionally.

I'm surprised no one seems to feel the same way as me about there being a bit of a power imbalance?

Thanks for your post jay bird, I also feel some indescribable emotion, I was wondering if others feel this too. I think you are right the T (I've decided to stop calling her my T) has been rushing me, I considered her to be over enthusiastic, ( I didn't put it like that to her) we've talked about that (as I described in a different post), and she is quieter and slower.