Yes, my husband. I have been with him much longer than he has been a T. He works with children and he is good at what he does at work, but it does not translate to our relationship or our children. He is a loving husband and father, but he makes a lot of mistakes and is far from perfect. He counsels the parents he works with to be more engaging and in tune with their kids, but unfortunately he is lacking in that department with our kids. It's so much easier to give advice or to see a situation as a third-party, than it is to live it.