OMG! I am in this same situation the thing is I am attached and this Army guy I know from high school has proclaimed his love for me yet is being pushy on wanting an answer. I haven't spoken to him lately but my boyfriend knows about it now and he doesn't want me talking to him. It's like Army guy expects me to drop my bf now yet wants me to give him a reason why he wants to be with me as he doesn't wanna wait on me. That's his damn fault for doing that because he should have told me this a few years ago that he is in love with me not wait until I am still in a relationship!

Give him a reason why he wants to be with me makes no sense. I am not sure if he will contact me. Amazing how your story is kinda similar to what I am going through...