People can be quite rude. I think its simply unacceptable to question someone about having children. You have no idea if they are infertile and not being able to have kids is emotionally painful or if it is a personal choice.

I agree with the poster who said that women are expected to automatically love children. I'm female and I don't have a desire for kids. In fact, my anxiety disorder is so bad that a screaming child can set me off for the rest of the day with anxiety literally shooting through my system. But, can I tell anyone this? Nooooo.....they all think I am a child-hater. (Yes, I have been attacked for not automatically thinking that kids are the best things EVER.)