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Originally Posted by Hellion
Or is it just impossible to go a day without bothering people...I can go all day and then word something wrong to like my brother or something and then I get to feel stupid/embarrassed ect because I came off 'passive aggressive' by accidentally not wording something perfectly clear...or its always some little way I've screwed up trying to communicate. A lot of times I try t...d plans today just now feeling really self concious so not sure I want to follow through with those plans...don't need to set myself up for rejection and all that.
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I do know what you mean - I find it almost unconscious it slips out without thinking. The obvious answer is to think a bit before speaking - play for time, ask a question back, say you need to think about it, and "if in doubt don't".
Of course you might already do this and it still comes out wrong, in which case I am not sure what to think!