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Originally Posted by The Skeezyks
Hi again DorianStorm
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Hello again Skeezyks! And thanks again for responding. I will really consider your words and take them to my heart. You have some wise words and so I ask you what do you think about showing this thread and some of these answers to her? Or if I could at least tell her why I'm backing off from her.
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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
IMHO, even though you are mature, you are still young yet and so is this young woman.
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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
When I think back on my own maturity level at age 22, I really did grow and change a lot throughout my 20's.
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Thank you for the responses! You really seem to have put some thought in them.
All in all from you posts the kind of feeling that I got was that throughout my life I will grow and change and mature and thus finding different things and people to be in "love" with. I'm so sorry when I say this but that doesn't sound too great to me. It sounds like everyone is just another person and there are no special ones. I agree that we in our small little minds create the meaning to all of those things. But does it mean that we shouldn't?
And I know and accept that whatever this is this might just be a fling for both of us (most likely for her).
I'm really having tough time trying to explain what I'm saying
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I'm young and I'm "growing" and I'm finding myself. Does any of that stop me from finding love that has the potential to last for years? Or should it stop me?
The way I reacted to my breakup was that of realizing that the person who I offered my heart and life didn't want them anymore and didn't think of them enough for her. I don't know how other way I should've reacted to that except get and be depressed for about 2 years.
I'm sorry I'm coming off as an immature child with response
and I do hope I'm not hurting you with this. This is just purely how I feel.
Thank you still! Appreciate the advice!
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Originally Posted by sophiesmom
Thank you. I was thinking the same thing.
Dorian, if you were a woman society would place most of the blame with you. But you're not (how lucky for you....)
IMHO you are both equally as guilty. Sadly, that's the way of the world, now.
I really do suggest honesty with everyone involved from now on.
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Thank you for your honest opinion, I really do mean it.
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Originally Posted by Creamsickle
You are both young, she's not married, not engaged, nor are you. What is the problem here? You may have both found a very special person in each other. Neither of you know how this will turn out. Take it slow and see where it goes. If things develop between you, it may become easier for her to make her decision. I believe life has a way of going in the direction it was meant to take.
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I did save you for the last place for a reason. It gave me a bit of hope but now I do feel that I do not deserve that ray of light.
Thank you, my friend!