The only sort of advice i have is the kind i follow myself - personally i just try and be civil with most people, you know, not get too involved and keep any kind of communication neutral and almost disinterested.

I come across very cold here and i know it rubs a lot of people up the wrong way but we all have our own ways of expressing and contributing to this place. PC for me is an outlet, somewhere i can come to try and be helpful in any way i can. Maybe it's good to keep this place in the back of your mind and think back to all the times you've assisted people in a more positive way.