I second Ripose.

I would remove my kids, myself, & my dog, as soon as possible.
Handsome or not, he sounds like a very angry sick man.
I definitely think he needs some serious professional help.
Please don't put your family or yourself, in what can probably & easily turn into a domestic violence situation.
You are worthy. Remeber, your children are learning their own self worth by watching you. If you cannot be strong for yourself, please do so for your sweet children. They need to see their mommy in a healthy relationships.
That's just me.
*big warm friendship hug*