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Originally Posted by Clara22
Ugly or pretty, bad or good, everybody needs to be genuinily wanted or loved, and nobody likes to be seen mostly as a mean (to boost other people 's self esteem or whatever). Maybe he is not the most perceptive person in the world but anyway perhaps you gave some signals his subconscious got. Many things happen at subconscious level.
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this sounds like I wasn't considering him a human being. I didn't know him that well and I don't fall in love at first sight but I was willing to listen and to get to know him more although I didn't immediately share all opinions. but I thought that is okay if you still respect a person. I was not only using him as a means. If it is a problem that I am happy if somebody seems interested and it is raising my mood I cannot be with other people.
...actually that makes a lot of sense. too much pressure. that''s the whole secret. so I cannot do anything about it.