Hello my friends,

So me and my partner are struggling at the minute. He is out of work and struggling to find anything else, and I am left barely being able to cover the bills and having to use the overdraft every single month until payday just to get by. I know he is trying really hard to find work, but it's really bringing me down and I'm even starting to resent him a little bit. We've always been so happy, but he's always been in and out of work. He can't afford to get himself any qualifications, but has taken out a student loan to do open university part time which will take him 4 years! I can't live like this for 4 years!

I don't know what I can do to support him, and he feels like I am shouting at him all the time - I don't mean to and I only mean well when I try and talk to him about it. I can't deal with moving back in with his family, because my depression and anxiety was worse than ever because they just made me feel so uncomfortable.

I don't really know what i'm supposed to do.

J x