Thank you all for your advice, tbh Iwas thinking all the same things and just needed some verification, I met him when I was at a very low point in my life and at the time he seemed to be my 'knight in shining armour'.. now after 2 years with him, he just seems to be odd and yes, I am unhappy with him if I am honest with myself.. I think my own self esteem is the problem.. my lease is up soon and that will give me the opportunity to move on without him and I am going to seek Therapy. Thanks again for your advice