Thanks for your feedback on this everyone.

PM's are that...*private* messages. If a member PM's you inappropriately, please contact admin. If a member PM's you with gossip, etc., and it's not to your taste or liking you can either respond that you don't care to read that and continue on in PM contact, or place the member on ignore.

Really, your experience there is at your fingertips to manage for the most part. If you're highly sensitive, you can turn PM's off altogether and will only view the forums where the posts/threads can be monitored.

Thanks!

KD