I agree with the above response. You should let this go, there are so many other men out there- why waste any more time on one that isn't even in the same country? He sounds flaky and indecisive too, those aren't traits you want in a partner, be with someone who wants to be with you not who choses when it's convenient for them. Focus on yourself right now and realize you will find a healthy mutually fullfilling relationship, with someone who is at least within a short drive away! I don't discourage long distance relationships because I do believe they can work with two willing strong partners, but when one is half in/half out- it will not work. The fact that you guys never had a talk about how you each felt and where you could see this going is the first issue, and you don't even relaly know each other that well. I'm telling you the irst 6-9 months of any relationship is when you will see their representative, after that is when the real person comes out and it is then you will be able to determine if the relationship works for you. Right now in your situation, you haven't even had that 6-9 months together to get to kno each other. Move on, you will find better- someone who isn't so indecisive and on their time!