EV, I wish I could say something that will make you feel better....

I used to see a t who was very warm and caring. Her voice was soft, her eyes so caring, I felt held.... In addition she asked a lot of questions that gave me opportunites to express how I was feeling.
Currently, I am seeing a different t....I still don't feel the warmth....she doesn't elicit as much...I have told her what it is I need from her....yet it is not forthcoming. I think I need 'catch her in the act'...when she is talking and explaining...and point it out to her right then and there...tell her what it is I need instead....but I somehow don't do it then and there...only when I come home I feel a vague sense of frustration.....frustrated at not getting the kind of response I want from her.....I know that when I will get the response I want I will feel held....