From my own personal experience in this area.....

I just had to continued to go on my own and continued to work on getting ME better - plus I shared my victories with my husband and in time he finally came with me.... this took about 2 years after my original start date with my T.

HANG in THERE....... it will happen in time.... and please remember that it is harder for men to consent to seeing a T for they were created to solve problems, therefore, they find it difficult to admit they need help.