Hi there!
I'm a 22 year old guy, and I have been in a relationship for almost 4 yers.
The thing is, i'm really missing the excitement of being single - and therefore i'm contemplating to break up with her.
The thing is, I really like her - and breaking up with her will be so tough (breaking the news to my family, her family etc.) and furthermore i have very few friends left since I've become quite a bore since i got into this relationship.
So, I need your help to make a decision! Let me break down the pros and cons about breaking up:
Cons:- I like her
- Telling family will be tough
- Might get lonely
- What if I never find one as good as her?
- Or regret?
Pros:- Live my life at fullest
- The excitement of meeting a new person and getting intimate
- Perhaps find a more attractive partner
- She did cheat on me at one time, which ever since has hurt my ego
- I feel like I'm too young to commit myself for the rest of my life
- There's lots of fish in the sea
- Socialising again will be healthy. I don't feel i can do this while i'm with my gf, as i'm a comfort-craver and can't resist the temptation to stay home from a night out, to just chill, watch TV and eat pizza with her instead.
THANK YOU!!!