hi tampagirl
i am so sorry that this happened to you. i dont know that i have any wisdom for you. the one question on my mind is to ask whether the two of you were drinking because that lowers inhibitions and made people do stupid things. still what he did was inexcusable. i dont see anything wrong with making public what he did. other people need to know the dangers of being alone with him. i am sorry that you do not have the brother you thought you had. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome