I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. And with a child

I'm in a similar relationship. Verbal and emotional abuse is horrible. My fiance "rarely" gets physical too. But that's the problem: it shouldn't be a "rarely". No one should ever lay a hand on you in anger. And there shouldn't be any verbal "assults". And the sex afterwards...my fiance tried that **** on me. I flat out told him we could have sex, but I didn't want to so it would be rape. I don't believe in "make-up" sex ever; and imo there is no way to "make-up" for abuse of any kind expect for getting help and never doing it again.

My T helped me with an "escape" plan. Have you made one yet? Mine solely consists of how to get out of the house safely. I have done some research on options for if I do leave him, but for now the options are worse. There is help out there for if/when you do decide to leave him. I don't know if you have pets, but at my humane society they have a program that takes care of battered women's pets until they are able to take care of them themselves again. Do a little research. You don't have to make any decisions, but at least you'll be aware of your options. You and your child's safety is what's most important!