A little more background. I was talking about writing a paper that could put me in a situation that I may have to call. and I have always seen it as a sign of weakness, and now my T is cracking down because if I can't even call it, how can I expect others to. (going into counseling). The next question is (for him or for you all) what type of situations do you expect either yourself or me(depending on who's perspective) do you call?