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Originally Posted by NYgirl21
I would tell my girlfriend to run! Nobody deserves some of the things I have heard and had to deal with, so I'm not sure what I am even questioning.
I don't think I have ever felt what a normal relationship feels like, so when there isn't that drama or worry or ups and downs, I get "bored" or it doesn't feel right. When I have a loving attentive guy who has good intentions, I tend to not feel that passion/chemistry/spark that I felt with this ex. I'm scared I have lost sense of what is a good relationship, or how being in a healthy relationship should feel, or how to be treated. I'll get there though, thanks everyone!
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It would feel uncomfortable and boring because it's not what you are used to.
Why want drama? Why want extreme ups and downs?
He's displayed reasons to be viewed as not trustworthy. If there's no trust, how can there be love? Without love, where's the relationship?
Sounds all Walt Disney and stuff....he drove 12 hours to give a promise ring and spend four blissfilled days. Now that he's gone, facing the friends and family seems taboo.
It sounds like the bad boy with the rebellious good girl saga retold.