sister, I'm glad you and your husband had a nice time sharing and you felt good about it. I think when in therapy that outside relationships are hard. I think we unconsciously compare them to our therapy relationship and outside relationships just aren't the same and pale by comparison.

I have to say that I too have thought that therapy creates more problems than solutions but I am new in it so I can say it is early yet and to be patient. I think it's just a natural reaction to avoiding pain in any way we can.

ECHOES