Lately I've been doing that too... Staying awake by being on the computer and obsessing or job searching. Usually I think that I didn't have enough time of my own to do what I wanted to do (outside of work or socializing). I don't know if it's come to hate yet though... Usually I only hate the idea of sleeping when I'm really depressed and don't want to get up in the morning. Or if I'm anxious.
Impatience probably can't help... One thing that ensures I fall asleep quickly at night is if I have a busy day with some exercise. So I feel like I did a lot (even if I just went on an outing somewhere for a few hours) and I'm physically exhausted. When I don't do this, my mind is too active and my body isn't tired so it takes patience, meditation and routine to achieve sleep. So I recommend the former.