Also since I was too surprised to really react to it I gave him the impression I was ok with it. Now when it has had a chance to sink in I am of course not.

I do wonder if he told me so I could help him stop. He says I am so wise it is like I am his therapist. The other day he sent me the lyrics to a song called Salvation, it goes like You're my salvation, you're my salvation..

Would it be a good idea to say that either he stops and if he can't on his own then he must get help and I will support him all the way, but if he doesn't intend to stop, if he doesn't want to get better, I can't be his girlfriend anymore because I can't condone what he is doing. Not only cheating on me but harming himself psychologically and I can't just stand by and watch it...