So through all this mess with my twin sister, my family says nothing. They don't like confrontation. so when my sister calls me a _itch or calls my daughter one, if she says something rude or acts rude, no one stands up for me. No one says anything.

We were taught family values: treat others as you want to be treated, if you can't say something nice, keep you mouth shut, love your family, treat others with respect.

I'm frustrated as to why? Why didn't someone say, "Stop", that is not ok, you don't call your sister or anyone names.

I can't change my sister, I'm to the point I resent her for her actions and words. I don't even know why I have a desire to make things better between us, but I do.

What to do?