No we have only been together for 9 months.

Got an emergency appointment with my old psychologist today. She confirmed what I thought that it is an illness comparable to other disorders. And she believes that by confessing to me it means that he wants to get help deep down.

She says I need to talk to him and be very clear about him needing to get help for this disorder and focus on it as an illness that needs to be cured. If he is willing to stop it and get better I can be there and support him but if not I need to leave.

She also said something that I hadn't thought about. The mother is a real slut and sleeps around all the time and is cheating on her husband with 5-6 men on a regular basis. So like my therapist said it is a physical danger too because of std.

I am going to try to do this next weekend
.. God it is so hard... :-(