Hello kelly8896-

I'm sorry to hear that you are having difficulties with the relationship with your sister. Finding the right therapist can be quite a challenge. Unfortunately it might take time and some trial and error before you find the right person for you. If you know anyone who has been in therapy, even in the past, you might ask them if they had a good experience with the therapist. You might also check with your GP or primary doctor-they might be able to give you a good referral. It is one of those things where it is hard to say, many times, until you are sitting face to face with a therapist and until you have the sense that they are someone you feel comfortable with. You might have to interview a few therapists until you get the one that is right for you. I wish you well.