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Originally Posted by Brasucasulu
My friend's little brother is giving him a hard time.
They used to be very close and he always helped his brother to get jobs and a better life. His brother became quite wealthy over the years and now he seems to forgot all waht his bro has done for him.
My friend is having difficulties as he just went through a divorce and some other personal problems. He asked his bro for help but he's ignoring my friend.
His brother became very selfish and it is a self-absorbed person. He wasn't like that before. He only speaks about his expensive cars, that he's gonna buy this or that car, that his bought LV shoes, Prada shoes or that he's been to this or that expensive hotels.
What advice can I give my friend? He's devasted with the fact that his own brother, who he always help ignoring him now.
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Unfortunately it seems that is what wealth can do to people, either that or his brother was just being deceptive all along and just using the help without really appreciating it...so doesn't give a damn about that maybe without his brothers help he might not have got all that 'success'. I think this is sad, hopefully his brother will learn to appreciate eventually....
I guess the most you can do is try to be supportive, let him know its reasonable to feel that way....I'd be pretty hurt if my brother who I try and help out did that to me but I doubt he would at worst we just argue sometimes. Unfortunately not much either of you can do to have his brother change his ways and quit ignoring him.