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Originally Posted by HelpWakeMeUp
Hi to all... I have attached a summary of some recent text with my spouse.
I welcome "clarity" as this is a marriage of 3 year and I will admit, coming out of a prior abusive marriage I am afraid that I now spot the red flags possibly all too well. The problem is I do not want to see them!
I want to fix it. I am a fixer, but I now feel lost ...Thank you for any words of wisdom/clarity to any that cares to read the attached. Please Forgive duplicates and typos...
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Hi. I am new here, but not new to this type of situation as I've lived in it for about 18 years. I think you are spending too much time trying to figure out what his issues are. He is an adult and he needs to figure out his issues. I'm guilty of the same thing, so I know how it is. I came to the conclusion that no one is allowed to make me feel bad about myself, no matter what emotional problems they may have. So, just try and remember that.