I'm not sure how this goes against anything i've already said?

OP: Another important thing to do here might be to ask for inspection reports of the place you intend to visit. As i've already said, nothing can prepare you for the reality of inpatient life but you can do everything possible to help prepare yourself. I'd also like to point out that voluntary inpatients stays are not irreversible, that is to say, you can LEAVE at any point.

I'm sorry if all you feel is confusion since coming here - that's not what this place should be about